5 things no one tells you about working out

If you’re new to fitness, making your foray into the scene can feel daunting for various reasons. What the heck is a rep? Cardio vs. weights? How do you do a burpee right? It’s like fitness has its own language and culture. Because it does!

In addition to this insider lingo, there are some truths that more seasoned exercisers take for granted. That said, I wanted to touch on a few of them:

1. You will be sore. A lot. When you first start lifting, it can be a rude awakening to your muscles. That’s because, every time you lift you’re creating micro-tears in the fibers. By definition, you’re putting stress on your body. Your bod responds in kind with (temporary) discomfort while it repairs the tiny tears and creates muscle mass.

2. You will start to feel “off” if you miss too many consecutive workouts. Just like eventually you won’t be as sore as the first day you started, your brain will adapt, too. That’s because, when you exercise, your system releases those feel-good hormones known as endorphins. Fall off the wagon for a few days or more and you might find your mood suffers. Because….science. Exercise makes our brains and bodies happy!

3. You’ll have laundry up the wazoo. Sports bra? Check. Legging? Check. Socks? Check? Tank top? Check. I used to do laundry once a week and now I’m on a twice-a-week schedule (or more) to stay on top of all the volume.

4. Results take time. You can’t fast-track fitness goals, despite what those IG influencers tell you. On average, it takes about 30 days for you to notice changes, another 30 days for friends and family, and 90 days for the world. Don’t give up. Consistency will never let you down, promise!

5. Enjoyment matters. There was a brief point in time I flirted with running. I did it because I thought it was going to produce the results I wanted. Boy was I wrong! Not only did I hate every second, it didn’t end up serving me. This is to say that enjoyment is an under-rated factor when it comes to program adherence. Whether it’s yoga, barre, pilates, swimming, strength training or some other activity, the best exercise is the one you’ll actually do.

Be realistic about your preferences and find a way to build a workout routine around movement that energizes you. That’s truly a recipe for success.

Why non-scale victories matter

If you’re recently pursued a lifestyle change with the intention of losing weight, you might be concerned about the number on the scale. While this is one metric, it doesn’t tell the whole story. (Plus, your value is not determined by your weight.) However, if you’re on a mission to get to a healthy weight, you might find value in my perspective, as someone who’s been in your shoes.

Non-scale victories — though maybe not as quantifiable — are wins in their own right. Consider the following alternative indicators of success:

• You can walk up the stairs without losing your breath.

• You make it through the day without having to take a nap or have another serving of caffeine.

• You run into an old friend who hasn’t seen you and they comment that you look healthier and more fit.

• You can keep up with your kids or grandkids when it might have been a chore before.

• You no longer have to take prescribed blood pressure or diabetes medications.

• Your blood work improves, and you lower the risk of developing preventable diseases.

• You feel “off” when you go more than a few days without working out.

• You develop a healthy glow.

• You no longer have chronic aches and pains, especially during activities of daily living.

• You can do more reps or increase weights at the gym.

• That pair of “skinny” jeans fits without a struggle.

• Your BMI goes from unhealthy to healthy.*

In short, the scale is one way to gauge progress, but don’t let it be the only one. *I should also mention that gaining muscle can certainly cause the number to be artificially inflated. That’s why BMI is not the only way to track progress. Muscle and fat and not created equally, after all. Interested in learning more about how you can safely and effectively lose weight? Email me to set up a free consultation.

Make your comeback

Life happens. Sometimes we’re pulled in different directions and have to take a break from our workout routine for whatever reason. We all have peaks and valleys in fitness (and life — trust me. It doesn’t matter how long you’re out of the game   — what matters is you recommit. I am writing with some advice to do just that.

Come up with a plan and stick to it. If it’s been a while since you’ve worked out, you may need some extra accountability. That could mean putting workouts on your calendar, electronic or otherwise. You might even consider asking friends and family to check in on your progress.

Go slow and steady. A strenuous workout after a period of being sedentary can be a shock to your system. When coming back, take care to be conscientious about your level of exertion and the length of the sessions. You don’t want to overdo it, get injured and then get discouraged. On that note, be sure you’re stretching after a workout and building in time in your routine for recovery. Foam rolling, hot baths, chiropractic, massage are all great ways to address and prevent aches and pains. 

Tune in. Listen to your body. Maybe a high-intensity cardio or strength training workout isn’t what you need right now. Maybe you need a restorative yoga class instead. Movement is movement!

Track progress. How will you know if you’re getting back to your baseline? Apps can help you record your workouts so you can compare and contrast data and feel a sense of accomplishment.. As the saying goes, you can’t control what you can’t measure. 

Celebrate small victories. How you define wins will be up to you, but don’t forget to stop and acknowledge the work you’ve put in. You rock!

Remember, sometimes the comeback is greater than the setback!

Bodyweight training: The secret sauce?

Have you heard of bodyweight exercises? While resistance machines and free weights can get the job done, don’t eschew bodyweight exercises because you think they’re a waste of time. That’s actually a myth.

While you do need to lift something heavy in order to increase your strength, that weight doesn’t need to come from an external source. Your own bodyweight can get the job done!

Bodyweight exercises are strength training exercises that use your own weight to provide resistance against gravity. Here’s why you should consider adding these type of exercises to your routine:

Get more bang for your buck

High-output, bodyweight-based exercises can produce considerable fitness gains in very short workout durations. As there's no equipment involved, bodyweight workouts make it easy to move on to the next exercise and avoid lag time. Shorter rest times leave your heart rate elevated and you’ll burn more calories, which can help change body composition.

Cardio + strength pack a mean punch

Speaking of results, bodyweight exercises are efficient because you can enjoy cardio and strength in one quick workout. For example, a minute of burpees in between strength exercises will keep the heart pumping while still supporting muscle development.

Say goodbye to boredom

And last but not least, if you get bored easily, listen up! Adding extra reps, performing the exercises faster or super-slow, and perfecting form are a few ways to keep things interesting.

What’s your favorite bodyweight exercise?

How I did it: My fitness journey

I wrote this post last summer for another platform and am sharing it here, as it answers a lot of frequently asked questions.

"Journey: an act of traveling from one place to another.”

People can go on various journeys in a lifetime. For me, it was one 5 years in the making—going from unhealthy, obese and self-conscious to one where I am happy, healthy and comfortable in my own skin. It could be said that the 55 pounds (and 15% percent body fat) I’ve shed are the byproduct of my hard work and dedication over the past few years.

When I first set out to “lose weight,” in 2013, it was a crusade driven in part by my genetic predisposition. I knew diabetes and heart disease didn’t have to be my destiny. (Both of my maternal grandparents died of heart disease.) I also was obese and not happy in my own skin. I wanted better for myself. So, with the support of my family and friends, I made the first step that would turn into a 5-year quest for improved health.

Me, at my heaviest

Today, when people hear about my commitment to health and fitness (and subsequent weight loss), they often ask: “So, how did you do it?”

I believe it comes down to the following factors. (Spoiler alert: some are unpleasant truths):

1) Sacrifice: You will undoubtedly have to give up some things to make space for your commitment to yourself. Some might even call you selfish and question your motives. It can be a lonely journey at times, but the rewards are worth it. I’ve had to make some tough choices about how I spend my time, but you should know that you should never have to justify putting your health first.

2) Grace: In the last 5 years I’ve experienced some great sadness and grief. (Both my father and father in law died in a year’s time, among other things.) There were times I wanted to throw in the towel, because I was so spent emotionally. And sometimes I didn’t feel like working out or cooking. So I didn’t. Give yourself permission to take a break and then get back on the wagon when the timing is right. The gym will be there.

Also, the trajectory is never a straight line. I’ve had weeks where my diet was off and my workouts fell to the back burner. I’ve been so close to a goal only to regress. What matters is that you recommit to yourself and your goals.

I’ve also had my share of chronic health problems that were undiagnosed until about two years ago and stymying my progress. (Hello, hypothyroidism.) Side note: you have to be your own advocate in the healthcare space.

3) Joy: I tell my clients that among the single most important predictors of adherence to an exercise program is enjoyment. Do you like to run? Are weights your thing? How about group classes? Whatever it is, you have to enjoy it or else you’re essentially sabotaging yourself and you won’t get results. I had a brief period when I was trying to run — it actually worked against me. I hated it and my body started to hold onto fat. It was very discouraging. Once I cut back on the cardio and committed to a strength training regimen, I saw the greatest results. Every body is different. You have to find what brings you joy and gets you results.

4) Consistency: Change does not occur overnight. It can take months or even years to reach a goal. (I know this firsthand.) But committing to something, no matter how seemingly modest or insignificant, can yield great results. Think of the tortoise and the hare. While it took a multi-year commitment to get where I am today, I am better for it. There’s no magic pill that can substitute for a sensible diet and adequate exercise. (I want to scream this from the mountaintops!)

5) Community: Find your tribe. When I first re-committed to consistent exercise, I found kickboxing and it proved to be a great outlet for me in more ways than one. I met a great group of women with similar goals. I found a way to improve my health, boost confidence and learn a few self-defense moves at the same time. Whether it’s a friend who serves as an accountability buddy or a personal trainer, it’s been proven that people are more successful when they have someone else behind them.

I hope my story was helpful. I did it. And so can you.

Me, in August 2018